A.T.T.I.T.U.D.E.........your key to the top

The only CODE to after self realization, is A.T.T.I.T.U.D.E

 Attitude: One of the most important steps you can take toward achieving your greatest potential in life is to learn to monitor your attitude and its impact on your performance, relationships and everyone around you.

“Attitude is a little thing that makes a big difference.”― Winston Churchill

Attitude is the only thing that can lead you on when fate seems a block. Your attitude toward things and humans keeps them in your path, you can only attract with the right attitude. We all have a choice. We can choose an inner dialogue of self-encouragement and self- motivation, or we can choose one of self- defeat and self-pity. It’s a power we all have. Each of us encounters hard times, hurt feelings, heartache, and physical and emotional pain. The key is to realize it’s  not what happens to you that matters;  it’s how you choose to respond. Your mind is a computer that can be programmed. You can choose whether the software installed is productive or unproductive. Your inner dialogue is the software that programs your attitude, which determines how you present yourself to the world around you. You have control over the programming. Whatever you put into it is reflected in what comes out. Many of us have behaviour patterns today that were programmed into our brains at a very tender age. The information that was recorded by our brains could have been completely inaccurate or cruel. The sad reality of life is that we will continue to hear negative information, but we don’t have to program it into our brains. The loudest and most influential voice you hear is your own inner voice, your selfcritic. It can work for or against you, depending on the messages you allow. It can be optimistic or pessimistic. It can wear you down or cheer you on. You control the sender and the receiver, but only if you consciously take responsibility for and control over your inner conversation. Habitual bad attitudes are often the product of past experiences and events. Common causes include low self-esteem, stress, fear, resentment, anger and an inability to handle change. It takes serious work to examine the roots of a harmful attitude, but the rewards of ridding ourselves of this heavy baggage can last a lifetime.

“Ability is what you're capable of doing. Motivation determines what you do. Attitude determines how well you do it.”― Lou Holtz

Trails to POSITIVE A.T.T.I.T.U.D.E

Connect to the Spiritual: The ultimate level of human need extends into the spiritual realm. Just as we feed our bodies in response to our primary need to survive physically, we need to feed our spirit because we are spiritual beings. Many people find powerful and positive motivation in their faith. I think I am one of them

Self-Motivation: Discover what motivates you what incites you to take action to change your life. Basic motives include love, self- preservation, anger, financial gain and fear. Self-motivation requires enthusiasm, a positive outlook, a positive physiology and a belief in yourself and your God- given potential.

 Invite your friends: Bringing your friends into the picture is a great way to keep you heading in the right direction. Tell some friends about your desire for a better attitude and tell them to let you know when you are getting negative. You may not want to admit you have a negative attitude, but your friends sure will tell you.

Put up humor in everything: Humor is a powerful motivator. The more humor and laughter in your life, the less stress you’ll have, which means more positive energy to help you put your attitude into action. There are also health benefits to lightening up.

Watch your word: Once released to the universe, our words cannot be taken back. What we speak reflects what is already in our hearts based upon all the things we have come to believe about ourselves. If we find ourselves speaking judgmental and disrespectful things about our circumstances or those around us, we know the condition of our hearts needs to change. You can create a direct path to success by what you say.

The Power in a Positive Greeting

Always be positive in your every greeting that lightens your every minute mood

 Self-Coaching Through Affirmations: An affirmation is made up of words charged with power, conviction and faith. You send a positive response to your subconscious, which accepts whatever you tell it. When done properly, this triggers positive feelings that, in turn, drive action.

 Write It Down

Want a positive attitude? Describe your attitude in writing. This programs some people but it is a strong trail to positive attitude. Your plan will be easier to work if you know what you want. Knowing you want a better attitude may not be enough, get specific plan your work and work your plan